Don't you just take the past and put it in a room in the basement,and lock the door never go in there? That's what I do.
And then you meet someone special, and all you want to do is toss them the key. Say: Open up. Step inside. But you can't ... Because it's dark... and there are demons. And if anybody saw how urgly it is...

「你可以把往事尘封在地下室，锁上心门，永远不去想。直到你遇到心上人，把钥匙交给他，让他打开心锁，走进你的心房。但你办不到，因为你的心太黑暗，藏了心魔，你不想让人看见你的丑陋。」 ------ <心计>(The talented Mr.Ripley)

Je größere Angst du hast,desto einsamer führst du.